Friday, April 19, 2013

Kerre Woodham - Musings From Middle Age


I had seen Kerre being interviewed on TV Ones breakfast show a few weeks ago and thought I want that book.

http://tvnz.co.nz/breakfast-news/kerre-woodham-women-s-mid-life-crises-video-5395409


When I saw that the book was on special offer and Kerre would be there to sign it I bought one and asked for it to be signed, as I was busy at the same time being in a fashion parade (Blog post to come).

I was asked if there was anything special I would like her to say so I just comments that I was a mother of five.



This is what she wrote:

To dear Fiona, 
With five kids I hope you get a chance to sit down and relax and read this!
Happy reading 
Love Kerre x 


I managed to get into Paper Plus before she left and we had a quick chat and a photo opportunity.

Now I must admit its not a very good quality photo. One: its a bit blurred - (but then I didn't take it ) and two: as with a lo of other photos I had take over the last few days there appears to be fuzzy bit. And then I realised. I had babysat our dear grandson Jacob and the two of us had taken photos and I showed him what he had taken (the joys of having a digital camera) but I didn't realise until now that he had touched the lens with his sticky feijoa fingers (Another blog post to come) and so every photo I have taken since then has a smudgy look about it.

Kerre Woodham and me

But hey it helps make the two of us look free from wrinkles so there's a plus.

When she signed the book she didn't know I was not only the Mother of five but the Nana of four and counting

Monday, April 15, 2013

Feijoa and Ginger Muffins



It's that time of the year again when the feijoas fall and I have to do something about them.
I've sent some to my youngest, Katrina, now in the South Island as she loves them and now I am trying out some of my favourite but also some new recipes for them.   

I have made this recipe before but found it quite "wholemeally" (I know - not really a word) but I thought I would try them again and I ate two as soon as they were cool enough to handle after they had come out of the oven. I don't know if I was just hungry or what but they were really quite nice.
I had another the day after and they are still quite moist but nicer if warmed slightly in the microwave.
Remember to use a low setting rather than on "high" or you will end up cooking them more and drying them out.

1 ½ cups plain flour
1 cup wholemeal flour
2 tsp ground ginger
2 teaspoon baking powder
½ teaspoon baking soda
½ cup raw sugar

50 grams butter
1 cup milk
1 beaten egg
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 cup chopped feijoas


Preheat oven to 180C (350F), prepare pans by greasing well or lining with paper muffin cups.
Mix together the flours, ginger, baking powder, soda and sugar. (first 6 ingredients)
Melt the butter and add the milk, egg and vanilla beating well with a fork.
Combine the liquid ingredients to the dry and add the feijoas mixing until just combined.
Spoon into pans and bake for 15 minutes.
A small slice of crystallised ginger may be placed on top of each muffin before baking if desired. (But I don't do this)

Sunday, April 7, 2013

From Fear to Faith


What is it like to live in fear?

John20:19-29 
Jesus Appears to His Disciples 
19 On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish leaders, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 20 After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. 
21 Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” 22 And with that he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. 23 If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” 
Jesus Appears to Thomas 
24 Now Thomas (also known as Didymus), one of the Twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came. 25 So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!”But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.” 
26 A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” 
28 Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”
29 Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” 

John writes that, on that first Easter evening, 
“the doors of the house where the disciples had met were locked for fear of the Jews.” John 20:19

The disciples had heard the witness of Mary, who told them she had seen the Lord, but they were still afraid.
They didn’t know what was going to happen next, they didn’t know if they would soon be arrested and crucified themselves, so they hid, in a locked room, and they huddled in fear.
“the doors of the house where the disciples had met were locked for fear of the Jews.”

Perhaps some of you know what this is like.
I can remember the days following 9/11, when many in America were afraid to leave their houses, certainly around the world people were afraid to fly on a plane, for days and weeks and even months thereafter.
I would imagine people in Christchurch following the two major earthquakes were afraid for days, weeks and even months in case there was another one even stronger than the last one. 
For me I remember when our son had a febrile convulsion and went blue without breathing that I thought he was going to die.
My husband has attempted suicide on a few occasions now and I have been afraid that he would die as a result. 
Other than that, I can’t recall being so fearful that I felt it necessary to lock myself inside to keep me and my loved ones safe.
And yet, I know that there are people for whom this is a daily reality:
·        people living in countries ravaged by war or neighborhoods plagued with random violence,
·        people whose lifestyles or religious beliefs or immigration status make them fearful of the authorities,
·        people who are so weakened by age or disease that even the normal challenges of life become dangerous to their health and well-being. 
There are often good reasons to be afraid, good reasons to be careful, good reasons to lock the doors and stay inside.
Even the disciples, who had locked the doors in fear of the religious and political authorities, had good reason to be fearful. 
The decades after the death and resurrection of Jesus were filled with persecution and violence, and the Book of Acts recounts many stories of the apostles being arrested, beaten, and killed for giving witness to their faith.
And yet here comes Jesus, knowing full well what had happened and what would happen, and he enters the room filled with fear, and he says, 
“’Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I send you.’ When he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, ‘Receive the Holy Spirit.’”  John20:21-22
Jesus takes their fear, and he replaces it with faith, sending them out into a dangerous world to be his witnesses.
He did not remove the object of their fear, he simply gave them the strength to overcome it, that they might be free to live life in the face of fear.
 
What about the rest of us?
Though our fears may not force us to lock our doors and stay inside, they can often influence how we live our lives in ways large and small.
We read of children being abducted in the streets, so while we don’t prevent our kids from ever playing outside, we certainly keep a closer eye on them.
We hear of drunk drivers causing accidents and wasting lives on our roadways, and while this doesn’t keep us from driving ourselves, we certainly try to be more cautious and alert.
We know of people who are struck down with life-threatening diseases, and while we know we can’t escape death forever, we try to be faithful in seeing the doctor and living a reasonably healthy lifestyle.

And yet, is this all the Holy Spirit empowers us to do, helping us to live lives that are safe and cautious, not controlled by our fears, but certainly not oblivious to them, either?
Or is there something more, something more profound, more radical, more life-affirming that God wants and needs us to be about?
Could it be that the Holy Spirit is offering us the strength and the courage and faith to take even greater risks, knowing that our ultimate destiny is safe in the hands of a loving and living God?

Before his arrest Jesus prayed in the garden of Gethsemane, 'I have glorified You on earth. I have finished the work which You have given Me to do' (John 17:4 ).
In the final audit you will stand before God and He will ask you,
'What did you do with the gifts I gave you?
Did you fulfil your assignment on earth?'
In that moment, nothing will be more important than how you answer that question

  Acts5:27-32 
27 The apostles were brought in and made to appear before the Sanhedrin to be questioned by the high priest. 28 “We gave you strict orders not to teach in this name,” he said. “Yet you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching and are determined to make us guilty of this man’s blood.” 
29 Peter and the other apostles replied: “We must obey God rather than human beings! 30 The God of our ancestors raised Jesus from the dead—whom you killed by hanging him on a cross. 31 God exalted him to his own right hand as Prince and Savior that he might bring Israel to repentance and forgive their sins. 32 We are witnesses of these things, and so is the Holy Spirit, whom God has given to those who obey him.”

Look at the apostles; they did not leave that upper room to live lives of quiet, faithful witness, they proclaimed God’s message with boldness, often entering a city and going straight to the synagogue, directly challenging the religious establishment with their provocative claims that Jesus was the Christ, the crucified savior of all.
"We must obey God rather than men" (Acts 5:29).
That is the theme of our passage from Acts, and, indeed, of this whole section from, chapters 3-8.
After the resurrection of Jesus, the Holy Spirit is sweeping through Jerusalem with power to enable Peter and John and the other followers of Jesus to heal, to convert multitudes, and to speak boldly.
The result is that Jerusalem is in an uproar, and the disciples are repeatedly hauled before the Sanhedrin, the Jewish religious and political council, to account for what is happening.
But if we read further on in Acts 5 we see that the Sanhedrin were furious and wanted to put Peter and John to death.
But then an honoured Pharisee among the Sanhedrin talked and persuaded the council to release the disciples warning them not to speak about Jesus anymore, for fear that an uproar would occur, and we know the rest is history.

What about you?
What is it that the Holy Spirit is calling you to do, but fear is holding you back?
Is it confronting unethical or destructive behavior at your workplace or in your home or within our government and the decisions they are making?
Is it stepping outside of your comfort zone and taking a leadership role in a group you belong to or here in the town? Is it opening up your cheque book and sharing your resources in a way that you know will make a difference, letting go of the need to save it all for a rainy day?
God has given you talents and He wants you to use them.
They may lie dormant under layers of failure, fear or low self-esteem.
You may be aware of them, yet not know how to put them to work.
God’s Spirit is alive and well and breathing on us right now, offering us peace, and faith, and strength, and sending us out to be an “Easter people” in a world controlled by death and fear.
Our task is simply to breathe in that Spirit and accept the gift that God is offering us, allowing ourselves to become a people defined not by our fears, but by our faith, as we boldly set out to follow Christ into the dark and scary places of our world, trusting in the God who brings life out of death, and courage out of fear.
God can take something that looks like nothing, and create something wonderful with it.
Just think: He made the earth from nothing - so imagine what He can do when He has something to start with!
All it needs is for us to stop living in fear and stepping out in Faith
Today get down on your knees and pray,
'Father, help me to recognise and maximise the talents You have placed within me, and use them for Your glory.' That's a prayer God will answer!
Let us pray
Thank you Father for loving us before we even knew you. Thank you that you have a perfect plan for each of us no matter who we are or where we are in this life.
Help us to let go of the fear that is not of you but receive the faith you breathe on us by The Holy Spirit so that we may be bold and step out to be your human hands, feet, voice and ears.
Use us as we hear what you will have us do and may it bring all the glory to You and not to us so that others will know of Your awesome love and desire for all to live in the grace of You loving heart saved by Your Son Jesus shedding blood on the cross, dying and rising from the dead to be the first for all of us.
Help us to fulfill this task in the name of Jesus
Thanks be to God; amen.

Sermon Fiona Van Lent 7/4/13
All scripture is taken from New International Version 1984 

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

High Tea

A couple of years ago I was part of Rural Women New Zealand here in Tirau for a few years. However because it was on in the early afternoon I found it an awkward time of the day and often they would have activities in the mornings which didn't suit me with my job, so I stopped going.

Although Rural Woman have good values etc our branch had predominately elderly women who had been a part of the organization for over 40 years and they were reluctant to keep up with 21st century expectations so no young members were attracted to this branch. In fact they wouldn't change the day or time for this was what they always did on the first Wednesday of the month.

I was pleasantly surprised to receive an invitation in the mail a few weeks ago to attend a High Tea for past members, so being curious to see how the group were going theses days and because I like this sort of thing, I gratefully accepted.




The invitation said hats and gloves were optional so I hunted out my white dress gloves but I only had my straw sunhat, so tucked that under my arm in case others were wearing theirs.
 
Arriving I found that no one else had worn gloves at all and only one lady had a hat so I didn't put my hat on.

I was seated at a table and asked what I would like to drink.

Tea was brought to me along with some plates of mini sandwiches, salmon and asparagus rolls. After a while tea trollies were wheeled around the tables with tempting sweet treats in dainty cuts.

Each table was set with an embroidered afternoon tea cloth and matching serviettes. The settings were a matching bone china cup, saucer and plate. There was a silver teaspoon and cake fork each. The sugar and milk jug on our table was silver and there were fresh flowers in a vase.

All the while we were being entertained by a talented man at the piano.

There were also spot prizes and free raffle tickets which were at each setting when we arrived. I didn't win anything but it didn't matter it was still a lovely afternoon.

We were then given a programme of songs, poems and some timbrel playing all preformed by one of the local ladies as the afternoon tea drew to a close.

Although once again I was probably the youngest person there, it was nice to meet some new people and but served and entertained making it a treasured afternoon.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Xmas Cookies

I know Christmas has been and gone but I am trying to get through all the bits and pieces of food and ingredients in and around my kitchen with out having to throw anything out.

Sarah got this "biscuits in a jar" as a gift at Christmas, but she said her children don't really like biscuits made with some of the ingredients we could see in the jar, so she gave it to me.

Now I must admit once I really looked, I did wonder who it would be for as there were nuts, M&M's, chocolate and rolled oats along with the usual baking ingredients.





The layers were a flour mix, rolled oats, M&M's, chocolate chips, brown sugar, white sugar and peanuts.


So following the basic recipe as attached to the jar I set to work.








The oven was already hot as I had made some double chocolate surprise muffins with left-over mini Easter eggs so I just tipped all the ingredients from the jar into a large mixing bowl. What an interesting mix of colours and shapes. I was almost sorry I didn't have a child with me to enjoy the fun!







I mixed together all the "wet" ingredients in a jug and then after giving the dry ingredients a good mix together, I tipped the jug of wet mixture into the bowl.

Once it was all mixed together (one again a great thing for a child to have done as there was no need to worry about beating butter to a cream or folding the mix carefully) it was ready for rolling into balls.


 I found this actually a little sticky and had to rinse my hands clean - to wash off the sticking mixture and to make rolling of the 'balls' easy.

Another great activity for small hands!

I got two trays of biscuits amounting to 33 in all.

On the first tray they were a little too close and didn't quite come out round but I was able to space them more on the second tray once I saw what was going to happen while baking. The instructions didn't say how much space between biscuits to allow.



Needless to say I have frozen an ice cream container of them for when little ones come to play.

There is a basic recipe for making up the jar here, noting that peanuts were used in the jar I used instead of pecans, and the colour of M&M's are used to suit the occasion.

Other recipes are on this site too.

I have seen something like this given to new mums so they can make up some baking with the minimum of fuss and time.

Monday, April 1, 2013

One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest



This story is set primarily in the psychiatric ward of a mental institution and focusses on its inhabitants, during the late 1950s. In this classic 1962 novel, Ken Kesey's inhabitants lives are lived in what is described in the book as a constant "fog." The inhabitants of the ward are beaten by the orderlies who are supposed to look after them, and they live in constant fear of the authoritarian head nurse, Nurse Ratched. 

Then, one morning, the hero, Randle Patrick McMurphy, a boisterous, gambling, brawling, fun-loving and smooth-talking rebel swaggers into the world of the mental hospital as the new inmate and takes over. A prisoner from a local work farm he is admitted to the hospital. Many of the staff believe he is feigning mental illness to avoid a stint of hard labour.

The book is narrated by a supposedly deaf-mute half Red Indian patient by the name of Chief Bromden who witnesses and understands McMurphy's heroic attempt to do battle with the powers that keep them all imprisoned.

A lusty, life-affirming fighter, McMurphy rallies the other patients around him by challenging the dictatorship of tyrannical Big Nurse Ratched and resolves to oppose her. He promotes gambling in the ward, smuggles in wine and women, and openly defies the rules at every turn. McMurphy begins to lead a rebellion against the rules and strictures of the institution. He wins small victories that slowly erode the powerful hold that Nurse Ratched has on the ward's inmates. When the nurse attempts to punish him by not allowing the ward to watch a baseball game, McMurphy and his fellow prisoners whoop and holler at the TV as though a game was on. He then manages to convince one of the doctors on the ward that a fishing trip would be therapeutic for the patients, and the coddled men of the institution overcome their fears of the outdoors and leave the safety of the ward.
But this defiance, which starts as a sport, soon develops into a grim struggle, an all-out war between two relentless opponents: Nurse Ratched, backed by the full power of authority, and McMurphy, who has only his own indomitable will. What happens when Nurse Ratched uses her ultimate weapon against McMurphy provides the story's shocking climax.

One night, McMurphy goes too far and has a party in the middle of the night, inviting two hookers to join them. Ratched finds out and is so cruel to one of the more fragile inmates, Billy, that he commits suicide. In one desperate attempt to be free of the nurse's hold, McMurphy attacks her and is punished by having a lobotomy performed on him. McMurphy is finally neutralised by authority, but in the final pages of the book Bromden takes on his mantle. Bromden throws a water faucet through one of the ward's windows and escapes.

Boisterous, ribald, and ultimately shattering, Ken Kesey's has left an indelible mark on the literature of our time. One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest tells the story of a controlling nurse in a mental institute and a patient rebellion against her. The novel is based on the experiences author Ken Kesey had while working as an orderly in a mental institution in Menlo Park, California. In order to better understand the experiences of people in a mental institute, Kesey actually subjected himself to electroshock therapy (a form of treatment for the mentally ill, also called electroconvulsive therapy) and took many of their prescription drugs. After Kesey published the novel, it was made into a Broadway play and later a film starring Jack Nicholson.


This was the first book our book club read for 2013 and for the following book club night we watched the film by the same name starring Jack Nicholson. I had been surprised that I actually enjoyed reading the book. Having seen live in a mental ward of the 21st century I felt I was cheering them on. I was therefore really looking forward to the film and to see how the different characters were portrayed. I was disappointed not so much in the characters but in that so much of the book being missed out or changed. As with a few movies of books I have now seen that I have read I realise that each must be viewed in their own form of media and not compared. However I do feel in this case the film was missing some good plot points portrayed in the book.